Wow, getting ready for family pictures can be super stressful.  After 4 years of getting pictures done (really 6 if you include engagement and wedding), you would think I would have it mastered–but no such luck!  The most important lesson I have learned is to go with the flow when it comes to taking family pictures.I set my expectations super low this year and it really helped us relax and get some fantastic pictures.  I feel like in years past, I put so much pressure on us to take good photos and everyone to be happy–but the reality of it is that toddlers will act how they want and you…